Open Question: friend is 6 weeks pregnant and fetus has no heartneat with heavy bleeding and bad cramps.?

My friend is 6 weeks pregnant but has been bleeding 4 one week now. started spotting last tuesday very light for a few days. then friday started passing blood clots. saturday went 2 er and they couldnt c the fetus. saturday started bleeding very heavy. sunday went back 2 er had a regular u/s and couldnt c anything, then had a vaginal u/s and saw that the baby was blocking hormones and had no heartbeat at 6 weeks. doc told her it was causing her 2 have a vaginal bacterial infection and said she could have a miscarriage and she is still bleeding heavy with bad cramps. do u think a miscarriage is going 2 happen. please dont comment if u cant help. i know shes stupid but shes getting on my damn nerves with this and i need answers so she can stop bugging me.

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Posted on March 8th, 2010 by While Pregnant  |  No Comments »

Open Question: PCOS AND CONCIEVING help me please?

ok lets start by saying I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2008 but I knew it for years because of irregular periods. I DONT have insulin resistance the only problem i have is high testosterone levels that cause cysts instead of eggs. i was 200lbs when i was diagnosed and then lost 45 lbs and i had 2 periods and normally i have one a year since i gained weight, but after i lost i had 2, but now i went back to the old pattern of no periods except for induced. i finally seeked help and i just started 1500 mg of metformin and next week im starting my first round of chlomid. can anyone PLEASE give me similar stories whether u were successful or not and if u think my chances are high of concieving? my husband and I have been together 4 years and still no baby, we’re both getting anxious! thanks for the help

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Posted on March 8th, 2010 by While Pregnant  |  No Comments »

Open Question: ..could i be pregnant?

a couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom. he pulled out but then he went in again after he cleaned up. im on birth control and have been for about 6 months. i’ve been very tired and hungry lately with bad cramps and headaches. im only 16 and i cant get pregnant. :( any help or suggestions?

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Open Question: is it possible to tell a few days after sex if you’re pregnant?


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Hospital Birth Vs Home Birth – The Pros Of Home Birth

home birthThe birthing process has come to a full circle. In earlier times when women did not have a lot of access to medical facilities, deliveries were routinely performed at home; then came a time that hospital deliveries were the norm, and now in western societies there is an increasing trend to birth babies in the familiar comfort of one’s own home, with a minimum of medical intervention and supervision. The pros of a home birth are many:

A familiar and comforting environment: Hospital environment can be stressful, noisy and less relaxing when compared to one’s own home. When one is at home, not only is the setting more comforting for the mother, she feels more in control of a situation that is her home turf so to speak.

There are no hospital rules and regulations to be followed. She is able to move about and assume the sort of positions that she finds comfortable rather than follow the guidelines of the hospital.

The birthing process is more able to be determined by the mother herself. The mother is free to eat and drink what she requires which is not the case in a hospital where her movements are more circumscribed.

Greater Privacy: She has the added benefit of the privacy of her own home, and she is not subject to the checking and scrutiny of a number of medical professionals who traipse in and out of a typical hospital birthing environment.

In a home birth, the mother is familiar with the individuals that are helping her, such as the midwife, the doula etc, and she already has a level of trust and familiarity with those professionals which can be very comforting.

Less chance of a medical intervention: There are higher chances of a medical intervention resulting in a hospital, and the mother is less likely to undergo a Cesarean section when she opts for birth at home.

Also in a home birth setting, the rates of infection are seen to be the lowest of all; whereas in a hospital setting, there is a higher chance of getting an infection.

Birth plan and Pain relief of choice: When undergoing a home birth, a woman may choose to have a water birth or a silent birth, or decide to have a combination of one or more birthing processes, as she may wish.

She and her midwife may decide what kind of pain relief is suitable for the mother, without any artificial aids.

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Posted on March 8th, 2010 by While Pregnant  |  No Comments »

Open Question: Seventeen and i think i could be pregnant. Help.?

Okay im 17 and over a month ago i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend.
Yes very stupid i know. Anyways i now think im pregnant. I did take the morning after pill the next day. But recently i have been feeling very sick. I have headaches, im dizzy all the time, a lot of food makes me sick, I have been extremely tired and i feel like im snapping at everyone. I have vomited after eating once or twice and a lot of time when im in bed i feel like im seasick, like i need to throw up. I seem to be putting on weight but im eating and exercising the same as usual and i am constantly bloated. I am also a vegetarian and for the last two weeks i have been craving meat so bad which never happens.
I was also supposed to get my period a week after i had sex and i keep thinking im going to get it like with the cramps and stomach pains and stuff but it hasn’t come yet. Every now and then there is a little blood but i shorty disappears. :S

I am just worried. I did take a pregnancy test and it was negative but my friend thinks i should get other opinions because i feel so horrible. So what do you’s think? (:

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Posted on March 6th, 2010 by While Pregnant  |  No Comments »

Open Question: 5 weeks pregnant feeling very dizzy and tired..?

i have been getting very dizzy and unsteady on my feet and im extremely tired is this normal, will talk to my gp on my next visit just a little worried.thanks in advance..

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Open Question: Microgynon 30 the pill….asap?

I have been on the pill for about 6months now and on thursday went out and was hungover on friday morning, i was being sick also about 4 times on firday morning due to the drinks i had but i still took my pill at 10 like i alwasy do but about 20mins later i was sick and brought it back up. it was my last pill in the pack before my 7 day break. i am due on on tuesday this week and dont know what to do.

do i start taking the pill when i am due on again on tuesday like i did in the beinning or what?

plz help

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Open Question: Period 2 weeks after late period and pregnancy signs?? i need help please…?

Firstly I am 19 and been in a relationship for sometime, I had unprotected sex a few times but he didnt ejaculate inside. I have always had irregular periods since the age of 11 but this time it feels different. I had a period that ended around the 7th of january then i didnt get my next one until 7 weeks later counting from the day it started. Just before i got the period i took a pregnancy test as i was very worried i had missed it, the first test wasn’t clear but the second was negative. I had sex a couple of days after this period which was half unprotected (started without a condom but put one on before he came) Since then I have had loss of appetite, cramps, feeling very bloated and very fatigued and stressed..but the strange thing is i just got my period 3 days ago which was only just 2 weeks after my last one. This is not normal for me, im usually a few days late but never this early! could it be spotting?? or just an early period?? i dont feel right, i have been to the doctor but they were not helpfull at all.
Has anyone had something along the same lines as this?
Please if anyone had good andvice it will be appreciated..i am one stressed out girl right now…

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What Are Braxton Hicks Contractions?

Braxton Hicks contractionsBraxton Hicks contractions are sporadic uterine contractions; also known as false labor or ‘practice’ contractions.

 These contractions of the uterus actually start to happen as early as 6 weeks gestation, however they may be quite undetectable by the mother until the second, or most typically the third trimester.

Not every pregnant women experience Braxton Hicks contractions. These kinds of contractions are unusually painless, irregular, sporadic and infrequent.

These are the contractions that are thought to prepare the uterus and the body for the actual imminent birth of the baby. Here, the muscles of the uterus tighten for a minute or two before relaxing and are thought to be helpful in effacing the cervix in preparation of the birth.

Things as simple as a full bladder or sometimes more serious situation such as dehydration can trigger these contractions. They can be helped by proper hydration and regular emptying of the bladder. These contractions can be helped by certain breathing exercises, and lying down in certain positions.

Strong Braxton Hicks contractions, particularly when they occur closer to the time of delivery can often are mistaken for real labor. However, these can be distinguished from real labor by the fact that they are painless and that they are less noticeable during exercise, unlike the onset of real labor.

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Posted on March 5th, 2010 by While Pregnant  |  No Comments »